What You Need To Know About Patience

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what you need to know about patience

Think of the last time you’ve been through a difficult time. How did you react? Would you react in a similar way or would you have reacted differently?

Every person has experienced some form of hardship whether it was pain, loss, fear, anxiety, sadness, or grief in their life.

However, what makes a person different is how they responded during that time.

Allah has mentioned patience 90 times in the Qur’an.

Allah says:

يَا أَيُّهَا الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا اسْتَعِينُوا بِالصَّبْرِ وَالصَّلَاةِ إِنَّ اللَّهَ مَعَ الصَّابِرِين

O you who believe, seek help through patience and prayer. Verily Allah is with the patient.

(Al-Baqarah, 153)

Patience in Islam has various interpretations and meanings. Many of us believe you simply activate patience only during hardships but that’s not necessarily the case.

According to Ibn Al-Qayyim in his work ‘Uddat al-Sabirin, patience is divided into three components:

  1. Patience in worshipping Allah and adhering to His commands.
  2. Patience in accepting the decree of Allah and his calamities.
  3. Patience in avoiding sins and acts of disobedience

Let us discover together the three components of patience through the Qur’an and Sunnah.

1) Patience Upon Obedience

Possessing the endurance required to fulfill the commands of Allah and performing them with Ihsaan (excellence) is the highest degree of patience.

One should constantly strive to obey Allah’s commands and give precedence to the Hereafter over this worldly pleasure.

Allah says:

وَلِرَبِّكَ فَاصْبِرْ “But for your Lord be patient.” (Al-Muddaththir, 7)

Allah knows and understands that it isn’t easy to obey Him and His commands.

It was reported by Anas ibn Malik that the Prophet Muhammed (peace be upon him) said,

“The Paradise is surrounded by hardships and the Hell-Fire is surrounded by temptations”

One of the greatest examples of being patient upon what Allah has commanded is the story of the Prophet Ibrahim (As) and his son Ismail (As). Allah commanded Ibrahim to slaughter his only son Ismail. When Ismail heard the orders from his father he said:

قَالَ يَا أَبَتِ افْعَلْ مَا تُؤْمَرُ سَتَجِدُنِي إِن شَاء اللَّهُ مِنَ الصَّابِرِينَ

He (Ismail) said, “O my father, do as you are commanded. You will find me, if Allah wills, of the steadfast.”

(As-Saffat 102-103)

Each person is tested differently in having to obey Allah’s commands, but for the one that is patient upon this obedience, they are significantly rewarded.

Allah says:

أُولَٰئِكَ يُجْزَوْنَ الْغُرْفَةَ بِمَا صَبَرُوا وَيُلَقَّوْنَ فِيهَا تَحِيَّةً وَسَلَامً

It is they who will be rewarded with (elevated) mansions (in Paradise) for their patience, and will be received with salutations and (greetings of) peace.

(Al-Furqaan, 75)

2) Patience When Facing Hardship

The second form of patience is accepting what Allah has decreed upon us when calamity strikes and choosing to be patient during a difficult time.

But how does one accept a calamity and how were we instructed to react?

Allah says: “Those who, when strikes them a misfortune, they say,

الَّذِينَ إِذَا أَصَابَتْهُم مُّصِيبَةٌ قَالُوا إِنَّا لِلَّهِ وَإِنَّا إِلَيْهِ رَاجِعُون Those who, when strikes them a misfortune, they say, "Indeed, we belong to Allah and indeed we towards Him will return." (Al-Baqarah, 156)

Ibn al-Qayyim mentioned the benefits of saying this verse from the Qur’an.

First, we are reminded that everything we own including our bodies and souls belongs to Allah.

Second, we are reminded of the certainty of leaving this world and returning to Allah.

Third, we are reminded that we will never be struck except by what Allah has decreed for us.

So no matter how great the hardship may be, saying this verse from the Qur’an will help guide us back into perspective.

But what is the reward for being patient during troubling times?

The Messenger of Allah ﷺ says,

“Never a believer is stricken with a discomfort, an illness, an anxiety, a grief or mental worry or even the pricking of a thorn but Allah will expiate his sins on account of his patience”.

The Messenger of Allah ﷺ also says in another Hadith

“Verily, the greatness of the reward is tied to the greatness of the trial: When Allah loves a people, He puts them to trial. Whoever accepts it, will enjoy the pleasure of Allah; and whoever is displeased with it, will incur the displeasure of Allah.”

So based on this Hadith we learn that if Allah wants to raise the status of a believer, He tests them with calamity so that they will bear it with patience. Then Allah will reward those who were patient in the Hereafter.

3) Patience When Abstaining from Sin

The third form of patience is the restraint required in order to abstain from the prohibitions of Allah.

The best example of this form of patience is the Prophet Yusuf (As). When Yusuf (As) was around the age of seventeen, the wife of the treasurer of Egypt shut the doors of a room with Yusuf. She tried to seduce Yusuf and get him to commit adultery with her. Yusuf said,

story of yusuf (as) "i seek refuge with Allah" - Yusuf 23 Quran

When he refused, she tried to hold on to him and force him to do the deed. Instead, Yusuf turned from her, without fighting her, and ran to the door to leave.

When a believer is confronted with the opportunity to sin, he will without hesitation turn away from it.

However, to reach that position it requires a high level of patience and restraint.

In order to develop that level of patience, we must adhere to the following:

  • Keep in mind that Allah is always watching
  • Ask Allah to help turn the sins away from you
  • Reflect upon the consequences of committing the sin
  • Strive to control the nafs (self) and purifying it by obeying Allah
  • Remember death and imagine your last action is committing that sin
  • Think about the abundant reward that Allah has promised for your patience

Patience will always lead to success, just as relief comes after distress and ease come after hardship.

Allah says:

إِنِّي جَزَيْتُهُمُ الْيَوْمَ بِمَا صَبَرُوا أَنَّهُمْ هُمُ الْفَائِزُون

“Verily, I have rewarded them this Day for their patience; they are indeed the ones that are successful”

(Al-Mu’minoon, 111)

Conclusion

We learned that patience comes in three types and that the reward of those that chose to take that path is immeasurable. However hard being patient may be, we must reflect that those moments of patience are for a lifetime of peace in this Dunya, and God willingly in the Hereafter.